{"id":81807,"date":"2026-02-13T16:10:38","date_gmt":"2026-02-13T16:10:38","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/?p=81807"},"modified":"2026-02-13T16:10:41","modified_gmt":"2026-02-13T16:10:41","slug":"care-goes-both-ways-how-support-is-a-shared-journey","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/blog\/care-goes-both-ways-how-support-is-a-shared-journey\/","title":{"rendered":"Care goes both ways: How support is a shared journey"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

I wanted to share a recent story of how a simple act of kindness can make a big impact.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Joe Coffin, who you may have just read about in our Valentine\u2019s Day blog<\/a>, has been with Sense for many years.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

\"Joe<\/figure>\n\n\n\n

He is 57 (like me!) and lives in a Sense-supported living accommodation in Birmingham and volunteers every week at the reception desk at Sense TouchBase Pears<\/a>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

We have known each other for many years, and Joe usually contacts a member of our practice team when he wants to talk about something important to him. Joe always asks about people and their families, and he has an amazing memory for a wide range of information.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

A couple of weeks ago Joe phoned and emailed me to say he wanted to see me. I presumed it was to support him with something, so I arranged to visit him at home. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

When I went round to his flat, he made me a cup of tea and then, to my great surprise, presented me with a mini-cake and started singing \u201cHappy birthday to you\u201d.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

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A picture of the cake that Joe had bought and given to Jo.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n

He then went on to say, \u201cI know you might not get a cake this year, Jo, because Neil has gone.\u201d <\/p>\n\n\n\n

He had remembered that Neil, my husband, died last December, and he just wanted me to have a happy birthday.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I felt this was particularly important to share, in order to highlight that support is not a one-way process; it is reciprocal. Yes, he receives social care, but Joe cares too. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

That day, he showed real kindness, and I was the one receiving care and support from him, not the other way round. He got such a lot out of keeping a little secret and just being thoughtful, generous and considerate.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I am, like all of us are, privileged to spend time with some amazing people and together, we can make the world a better place.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

Thank you to Joe for such kindness. I am so very touched and feel very lucky.<\/p>\n\n\n\n

I think we should all \u201cbe more Joe!!!\u201d<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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