{"id":295,"date":"2021-10-12T10:16:00","date_gmt":"2021-10-12T09:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/?p=295"},"modified":"2023-12-19T15:36:46","modified_gmt":"2023-12-19T15:36:46","slug":"my-sense-buddy-made-me-happy-during-the-pandemic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/blog\/my-sense-buddy-made-me-happy-during-the-pandemic\/","title":{"rendered":"My Sense Buddy made me happy during the pandemic"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-intro\">Rebecca volunteers as a Sense Buddy. Here&#8217;s how baking and cooking brought her and her buddy, Trisha-Mae, closer together during some tough times.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/03\/buddying-rebecca-trisha-mae-bannercrop-scaled-1024x789.jpg\" alt=\"Buddy pair Rebecca and Trisha Mae smiling at the camera\" class=\"wp-image-1584\"\/ style=\"object-position: 54.79% 39.94%;\"><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Buddy pair Rebecca and Trisha Mae smiling at the camera<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Trisha-Mae and I started Buddying just before the pandemic in January 2020. I had been looking for somewhere to a volunteer for a while. After a bit of searching, I came across Sense\u2019s Buddying service. It ticked all of the boxes.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Sense\u2019s Buddying service matches anyone with disabilities to a volunteer. You meet online once a week with someone who has shared interests, sense of humour and personality.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">I learned about Trisha-Mae&#8217;s love of baking<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>As the news about Covid-19 started coming in thick and fast, we took a relaxing stroll to get to know each other. It wasn\u2019t long before I found out about Trisha-Mae\u2019s love of cooking and baking. I didn\u2019t realise at the time, but as we all went into lockdown, that information would prove useful.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>In March, the Buddying sessions became virtual \u2013 we did them over video call. It was a big adjustment and at first we spent time just talking. Then, Trisha-Mae mentioned her love of cooking again. We decided to try some cooking sessions.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We cooked everything from quesadillas to apple crumble<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>It wasn\u2019t long until Trisha-Mae started taking the lead. She\u2019d research recipes and talk me through them. We cooked everything from quesadillas to apple crumbles.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1000\" height=\"750\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog.jpg\" alt=\"A picture of a screen. On the screen there are two squares. It's a video call. In one square, we can see a cake. In the other, a woman is taking a photo with her phone of the screen.\" class=\"wp-image-296\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog.jpg 1000w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-450x338.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-768x576.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-933x700.jpg 933w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-800x600.jpg 800w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-533x400.jpg 533w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-350x263.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/rebecca-and-trisha-mae-zoom-blog-600x450.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1000px) 100vw, 1000px\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-element-caption\">Trisha Mae shows her freshly baked cake to Rebecca on a Zoom call.<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>I didn\u2019t have much experience of baking cakes but Trisha-Mae was really patient and helped me get my skills up. At the end of each session, we would have a competition to see who could wash up the fastest.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">We gained each other&#8217;s trust<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>These cooking sessions were so important for both us during an incredibly difficult time. We would laugh and chat with one another. We gained each other\u2019s trust, all through a screen.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Cooking and baking brought Trisha-Mae and I closer together. I bought her an apron with her name on it for Christmas to show my appreciation for all of the new recipes she\u2019d taught me. Those moments in between pre-heating the oven and eating a slice of cake were some of the happiest I had during the pandemic. All thanks to my buddy, Trisha-Mae.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Feeling inspired or also craving some baking? 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