{"id":281,"date":"2021-11-19T18:31:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T18:31:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/?p=281"},"modified":"2026-04-15T11:32:21","modified_gmt":"2026-04-15T10:32:21","slug":"my-son-kyllian-moves-to-the-beat-of-his-own-drum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/blog\/my-son-kyllian-moves-to-the-beat-of-his-own-drum\/","title":{"rendered":"My son Kyllian moves to the beat of his own drum"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-intro\">After an in-utero brain haemorrhage, my son Kyllian has speech delay and cerebral palsy in one arm and both legs. He can\u2019t say most words and struggles to communicate his choices. Gesturing and pointing can also be a challenge. Imagine our shock when he started to communicate through song.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"641\" height=\"855\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-rotated.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-282\"\/ style=\"object-position: 52.57% 21.26%;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-rotated.jpg 641w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-450x600.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-525x700.jpg 525w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-300x400.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-350x467.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/kyllian-child-on-lap-600x800.jpg 600w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 641px) 100vw, 641px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Drumming is Kyllian&#8217;s jam<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Rocking out and playing the drums wasn\u2019t the first activity we thought of trying with Kyllian. But, over the summer, we started attending Sense Active&#8217;s Drumming to Music sessions online. The sessions encourage children and young people to move to the music with upbeat songs. Kyllian loved it. Really loved it. The sheer joy on his face when he drums is enough to make us all feel extremely proud of him. A few months on from that first session, and he&#8217;s hardly missed a week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Into the unknown<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>One day when we were warming down from another lively session, Kyllian started to sing. Two little sounds came out &#8211; \u201cahhhh ahhhh\u201d \u2013 repeating exactly what he had heard in the Frozen song \u201cInto the Unknown\u201d. He was telling us he wanted to listen to that song!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>That moment was incredible. After a few more sessions, Kyllian was soon choosing which song he wanted to listen to by singing it (in his own way). It was wonderful to see Kyllian making his own choices through music. And it was all thanks to Sense. All in all, these sessions have created an environment where Kyllian can communicate in his own way. He grows in confidence each week, becomes more animated and gets enjoyment from doing the drumming exercises to the same songs so he can learn their beats and tunes. It&#8217;s also helped us all connect with Kyllian as a family, guessing which song he&#8217;d like on next!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We\u2019ve been attending the weekly sessions for a long while now, and Kyllian is singing along to even more songs in the sessions. Even his therapist is surprised and delighted at how far he has come. It is truly a joy to watch and see our little boy making his own choices.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Get involved: Join Kyllian at Sense Active\u2019s weekly sessions<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Sense Active offer a variety of online, telephone and face-to-face sessions for children or adults with complex  needs. The sessions run from Monday to Saturday. To find out more visit\u00a0<a href=\"\/scheduled-activities\/?_type=sport\">sense.org.uk\/sport<\/a>\u00a0or contact\u00a0<a href=\"mailto:%20sense.active@sense.org.uk\">sense.active@sense.org.uk<\/a><strong>.<\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>After an in-utero brain haemorrhage, my son Kyllian has speech delay and cerebral palsy in one arm and both legs. 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