{"id":165,"date":"2021-11-19T16:34:00","date_gmt":"2021-11-19T16:34:00","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/?p=165"},"modified":"2023-04-20T09:53:10","modified_gmt":"2023-04-20T08:53:10","slug":"transitioning-through-lockdown-with-my-buddy-maria","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/blog\/transitioning-through-lockdown-with-my-buddy-maria\/","title":{"rendered":"Transitioning through lockdown with my buddy Maria"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"is-style-intro\">Hello, everyone. My name is Saihan Islam and I&#8217;m passionate about campaigning for more understanding and support for people with disabilities.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img decoding=\"async\" width=\"1024\" height=\"684\" src=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-1024x684.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-166\"\/ style=\"object-position: 35.28% 25.83%;\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-1024x684.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-450x300.jpg 450w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-768x513.jpg 768w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-1536x1026.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-1048x700.jpg 1048w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-900x600.jpg 900w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-599x400.jpg 599w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-350x234.jpg 350w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-1600x1068.jpg 1600w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-600x401.jpg 600w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/wp-content\/uploads\/2022\/02\/sihan_lool_2021-blog.jpg 1998w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Lockdown was tough for us all, and since the pandemic started, finding new ways to do the things we love has been difficult. Luckily for me, I have had my\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/get-involved\/volunteering-with-sense\/volunteer-as-a-sense-virtual-buddy\/\">Sense Virtual Buddy<\/a>\u00a0to talk to and have fun with. This has meant so much to me. It&#8217;s given me something to look forward to each week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Transitioning through lockdown<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Before the pandemic, I was always busy balancing schoolwork, my youth clubs and my mental health sessions. It could be difficult juggling my school and personal life, but I loved it. When lockdown started, I felt quite isolated and scared. Usually, when things make me anxious, I go to my mental health sessions. It helps me to feel a lot better. But when these stopped, it made me feel even more anxious.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I have had a few Sense buddies over the years, which I&#8217;ve loved. I always enjoy the sessions. We usually go out into the community and do all sorts of cool activities. As various lockdowns drew closer, I soon realised that this was going to have to stop too.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">My buddy helped me through all the uncertainty<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>Through all this change, Maria, my buddy, was fantastic. Instead of arranging trips out, we started to arrange video chats. When we learned how to share a screen, we started having our own movie sessions too. I&#8217;m passionate about politics and history, and The King&#8217;s Speech became a favourite of ours.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Having a volunteer buddy is so important to me. Especially when other services had to stop. Maria is someone that I can talk to outside of my family which is great when I am feeling anxious. She is always kind and helpful. Also, I learn a lot from her. If it wasn\u2019t for my buddy, I wouldn\u2019t know much about Dunkirk or the Ottomans! I still get worried about things from time to time but Maria helps me take my mind off things.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">The future looks bright<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>When this is all over, there are lots of things that I am looking forward to doing. Seeing Maria for our sessions is definitely high on my list, but I really want to go back and see everyone at the Sense office in London. Sense volunteers have helped me so much and I would love to volunteer my time too and help other people.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Thank you, Maria, and all the other Sense Buddies out there for all your hard work and dedication!<\/p>\n\n\n\n  <div class=\"wp-block  box  ctaBox    is-style-textured-primary-tint-10\">\n    <div class=\"ctaBox__row\">\n      <div class=\"ctaBox__content\">\n        <div class=\"acf-innerblocks-container\">\n\n<h2 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Find a volunteer Buddy<\/h2>\n\n\n\n<p>The Sense Virtual Buddying service is free for anyone with disabilities looking for a friend in the UK. <\/p>\n\n<\/div>\n      <\/div>\n\n      <div class=\"ctaBox__cta\">\n        <a href=\"https:\/\/www.sense.org.uk\/get-involved\/volunteering-with-sense\/volunteer-as-a-sense-virtual-buddy\/\" class=\"button  button--primary\">Learn more<\/a>\n      <\/div>\n    <\/div>\n\n  <\/div>\n\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The pandemic brought about a lot of uncertainty. 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